Can I be glad? With nothing? What is this constant looking for, searching? This never 'arrived-ness' - busyness and ungladness? When and where does this end? Yes and Never This yearning for some outside thing, event, person to make one's life 'better', can only end when one slows down. Slow down. And for a... Continue Reading →
For The Love of MySelf – I Validated my Wounding and Let Go of The Past
'Do not look for healing at the feet of those who broke you' Rupi Kaur / 'milk and honey' Why is loving OneSelf such a challenging experience? I may even say, hard. Are we not born from Love, into Love, as Love and Loved? Our Love Coat Sometimes our Love Coat has come unraveled. Torn.... Continue Reading →
I Get Asked This a Lot : How do You Manage Being Single?
"By persistently remaining single, a man converts himself into a permanent public temptation." (Oscar Wilde) That's my answer too. Except, in my case, it would be 'a woman coverts herself into a permanent public temptation.' Take Away It all comes down to attitude. The only thing that you can ever control in this life,... Continue Reading →
You know when you’re Wearing a Social Mask
Wearing social masks is part of our coping mechanism. The real question is: Why do we need them? If we cut straight to the chase here - it is because there is a feeling of inadequacy living in our psyches. And guess what! Who cares? Because everyone feels it, has it, experiences it at some... Continue Reading →
The Violence of Depression
Depression is a debilitating experience. Depression is a thief. And depression is violent. There really is no quick fix or an easy solution. But there is one thing that is constant. That is - that there is you. And there is this thief. No matter who says what - whether it is labeled as... Continue Reading →
They Built a Cathedral from a Picture in a Book.
All this stuff about living and creating your dream, was really getting to me. And the reason being - it was so exhausting. I had no energy left to actually recognise whether I may indeed, be living and creating my dream. So busy was I with using tools and methods that will bring me the... Continue Reading →